Randy Tost and I have become friends. The issue that brought us together initially was my art. He really likes my art and I appreciate this very much. The “art thing” soon had us realizing we had much more in common. We enjoy anything concerning nature. We, both, enjoy hunting. Randy has invited me to visit his home and property. We have enjoyed some breakfasts together at local restaurants on a few occasions. I consider him a fine and genuine person.
We walked across the hollow to view the famous deer stand where many hunts yielded success over the years. Randy was shocked to see some tree damage from recent storms. A large limb from the oak the tree stand was attached had broken off and missed the stand only to hit an ash tree next to the stand. The big ash had broken and two of the main trunks were now on the ground.The big oak limb had then fallen close enough to push on the ladder, but not do any damage. WOW! Talk about luck!
This morning we, also, set out for some hiking, thoughts of future art projects, checking on wildflower growths, bird boxes… I had given Randy some wildflower startings from my “crop” and some bird boxes earlier this year. Surprisingly, the flowers faired rather well since this summer had been very hot and dry. The remaining of the morning we talked hunting; my frequent snake bites; Ned Smith art; (one of the greatest wildlife painters) health issues….Four hours just flew by!
We talked about the losses of our loved ones too. Randy had lost, both his wife, Susie and his mother-in-law in 2000. You can still see the sadness whenever he talks of these wonderful women. I do the same anytime I discuss my father for more than a minute. The emotions and love are still present. He passed away in 1999. This is another bond we share!
Time went very quickly and the noon hour was minutes from being on us and I was on my way back home with promises of visiting again. I was happy to see my wife and pets too.
I was blessed to see a couple of deer and 15 turkey vultures drying in the morning sun from an ancient and long-dead tree.
I do not often write on blogs, as a matter of fact, yours is the only one that I read. However, in this case I must comment. Randy is everything that you say he is and more. I have known him for approaching 50 years; we met at a church camp (Lutherlyn near Butler) and became friends almost immediately. We were best men in each other’s wedding. Larry — you picked a good new friend when you picked Randy. You will never find a more genuine person. I love and respect him like a brother.
John Helinski
John, You are so correct. I wish I would have met Randy years ago. From what I heard you are about the same “caliber” as Randy!!! Thank you for writing! Maybe someday we will have the opportunity to meet!